After a courageous 10 year fight battling Carcinoid Cancer, Sunny Carney, of Plum, passed peacefully on Saturday, November 3. She was married to her devoted husband, Mark; and was a loving mother to Austen, Logan and Nolan; daughter of Patricia Jennings and the late James J. Jennings; daughter-in-law of Dale and Dottie Carney; sister of Judy Phillips (Ray Jr.), Lynn Pesta (Teddy), Michael Jennings (Vicki Lynn), James Jennings (Sue), Joseph Jennings (Elizabeth), Sheila Fortes (Jim); sister-in-law of Craig Carney (Julia). She is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews, and was a true friend and inspiration to many.
In addition to being an inspiration to family and friends Sunny inspired carcinoid cancer patients across the globe through her blog, and then her book "The Sunny Side of Cancer. She spoke at numerous cancer events locally sharing stories of her journey which led her from Basel, Switzerland to all of the top Carcinoid Cancer specialists here in the states. She was an advocate for better diagnosis of the disease and for insurance coverage of treatments. She fought with grace and dignity, never letting the pain inside challenge her faith or diminish her love for life.
Memorials may be made to "Carney Family Fund", c/o S&T Bank, 2190 Hulton Road, Verona, PA 15147.
Friends received Monday 7-9 p.m. and Tuesday 3-8 p.m. at Unity Community Church, 215 Unity Center Road, Plum, PA 15239.
Funeral Services will be held on Wednesday at 11 a.m. in Unity Community Church with Rev. Frank Deluce officiating. Arrangements entrusted to CHARLES W. TRENZ FUNERAL HOME, INC.
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Below is an entry that was written by Sunny's husband Mark when she had her third bout. To become updated on her journey please enjoy her posts.
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Sunny's husband Mark tells their story...
A mother of three boys, a daughter, the baby sister to a large family, an aunt, a godmother to several, a trusted friend, an outreach volunteer, a business owner and my wife. Sunny Carney lives up to her name every time someone speaks to her; she is beautiful both in and out. She has been my biggest motivator, my rock and my inspiration in tough times, my biggest fan in good times, and most importantly my best friend. Told 14 years ago that having children may not be part of our future because of ovarian cancer, she kept the faith, and is a wonderful mother to our three sons- Austen, Logan, and Nolan. She is always ensuring that they know the Lord, love of life, kindness to others, hard work, and occasionally when to "shape up".
Her boundless energy, healthy lifestyle and positive attitude are infectious. She has served as president of our children’s PTA, organized committees that benefit those who are less fortunate in the community and led drives for those who have been caught up in unfortunate situations. She has done so much for others, usually without letting anyone ever know, I could not begin to list them. Her strong faith in God and modest upbringing has given her a sense of giving that only she can explain. When she successfully started her own photography business, she also started a non-profit division photographing family portraits for area families fighting cancer. Her friends say she is amazing and she simply shakes her head and wonders what all of the fuss is about.
Her mother, sisters, brothers and large extended family will tell you she is the one you can count on to lend an ear when needed and never judge. She was raised by her loving mother and father who was the warden of the Allegheny County Jail and actually spent most of her childhood in the residence connected to the jail. At a young age she witnessed more of life’s tragedies and obstacles through her neighbors, the prisoners, than most of us can imagine.
Although all of the aforementioned is remarkable it is not what makes her truly special. Sunny is a two time cancer survivor and now is currently fighting for a third time. After beating ovarian carcinoid cancer and undergoing serious surgery for carcinoid tumors in her right lung just three years ago, the carcinoid tumors returned in her lymph nodes, liver and bones. The size and proliferation throughout the liver of these tumors mandates immediate chemotherapy in four treatments over the next few months as well as monthly octreotide treatments. These painful treatments will hopefully stop the growth but are not a cure. There are numerous tumors in her spine, her skull, her hip, her leg, and her shoulder...all in the bones and she will wait on potential radiation to fight those.
What my wife has is Carcinoid Cancer Syndrome, an endocrine disease which is rare and spreads from organ to organ. As of right now the only known treatment for remission is administered by renowned clinics in Europe. However the treatment is not covered by our insurance. Our doctors have encouraged us to start raising money and matching grants could follow. Her lead oncologist strongly believes that Sunny would be a prime candidate to be a voice to get the message out regarding carcinoid cancer syndrome, bring this treatment to the United States and encourage approval from the FDA. Without this treatment, the tumors most likely will continue to metastasize in other organs and her fight will be ongoing. Sunny has set up The Sunny Carney Carcinoid Cancer Fund to support her treatments. She believes that once she beats this cancer she can make a difference to others also suffering from Carcinoid Cancer.
Mark A. Carney
C/o S & T Bank
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Sweet Child of Mine!!!
Today is my sweet, happy-go-lucky, youngest son Nolan's Birthday. Nolan is our "Sweet Child". He is the surprise that ended up being the gift God knew we need. He brings balance to this high energy, type A personality and intense home. I know I have posted before about this one but he is so easy to write about because he brings such joy to our family. He manages to calm a whole family down when things get a little stressful with his quick wit and adorable grin. His kindness and ability to walk away from a difficult situation making a difference is what really stands out. His love for music is infectious to the whole house. He started playing guitar at age 8, only because he beg us for a year for lessons, which encourage his other brothers to take up drums and bass. Although Austen, being the oldest, thinks he runs the jamm sessions, Nolan has this unique way of being the leader without the leader personalities knowing.
There is nothing better then seeing your child's face on the morning of their Birthday. This morning was no exception. His brothers were already out the door on their way to school when he came bopping down our stairs sing, "Sweet Child of Mine", by Guns and Roses, his newest guitar song. Every year since the boys started school I've made it a tradition to take them to breakfast before school on their special day. Well as stated in yesterdays post I have been struggling with some horrible bone pain which is unbearable at night and in the mornings. So this morning I was hoping Nolan forgot or being 12 now may think he is too old. I had about two to three hours of on again and off again sleep and spent the last hour sick to my stomach. Honestly today I was in no shape to be taking anyone anywhere. But once I saw his excitement I could not say NO. So I put a baseball cap on, traded my slippers for boots, and put on my long wool coat on so no one would notice I still had my PJ's on. Yes my Plum Mums I wore my PJ's to the Oakmont bakery.
I dropped him off at school, 45 minutes early I have to add because he had a student government meeting, with 4 dozen donuts for his class. I sat for a minute in the parking lot watching him talk to every person as he walked to the door with his hands full of treats. I jumped out the car to run and grab the door for him. As I open the door he smiles at me and says, "Mom you look great! You walked from the car and did not limp once. You're getting better. Thanks for breakfast." Once again he left me speechless. He left me with strength and hope. I did not look great. In fact I did not want to get out of the car for fear of seeing another mom I knew dress to the nines and me looking like I had cancer. But when I saw him struggle to open the door I did not think twice about the way I looked, the pain I was in or the funny limp I have from the surgery. I just wanted to help. However I did not realizes that God gave me Nolan to help me.
God knew that we needed him to give our family strength. He knew that when he put four overachieving, high energy people in one family he needed to add an ounce of joy that will make a difference in our house everyday. He knew that when Logan and Austen are fighting over who knows more in Science or which one got high score on some stupid video game we needed Nolan to calm the storm. He knew that when I was to get sick I needed someone to slip notes under my door or come in with warmed up heating pads for my back. He knew that when tears are falling because of fear and pain we needed someone to wipe them away with a funny comment or just a smile. So on his birthday he may be open presents but the real present was giving to me on January 14, 1999. He is one of my three lifesavers.
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