After a courageous 10 year fight battling Carcinoid Cancer, Sunny Carney, of Plum, passed peacefully on Saturday, November 3. She was married to her devoted husband, Mark; and was a loving mother to Austen, Logan and Nolan; daughter of Patricia Jennings and the late James J. Jennings; daughter-in-law of Dale and Dottie Carney; sister of Judy Phillips (Ray Jr.), Lynn Pesta (Teddy), Michael Jennings (Vicki Lynn), James Jennings (Sue), Joseph Jennings (Elizabeth), Sheila Fortes (Jim); sister-in-law of Craig Carney (Julia). She is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews, and was a true friend and inspiration to many.
In addition to being an inspiration to family and friends Sunny inspired carcinoid cancer patients across the globe through her blog, and then her book "The Sunny Side of Cancer. She spoke at numerous cancer events locally sharing stories of her journey which led her from Basel, Switzerland to all of the top Carcinoid Cancer specialists here in the states. She was an advocate for better diagnosis of the disease and for insurance coverage of treatments. She fought with grace and dignity, never letting the pain inside challenge her faith or diminish her love for life.
Memorials may be made to "Carney Family Fund", c/o S&T Bank, 2190 Hulton Road, Verona, PA 15147.
Friends received Monday 7-9 p.m. and Tuesday 3-8 p.m. at Unity Community Church, 215 Unity Center Road, Plum, PA 15239.
Funeral Services will be held on Wednesday at 11 a.m. in Unity Community Church with Rev. Frank Deluce officiating. Arrangements entrusted to CHARLES W. TRENZ FUNERAL HOME, INC.
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Below is an entry that was written by Sunny's husband Mark when she had her third bout. To become updated on her journey please enjoy her posts.
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Sunny's husband Mark tells their story...
A mother of three boys, a daughter, the baby sister to a large family, an aunt, a godmother to several, a trusted friend, an outreach volunteer, a business owner and my wife. Sunny Carney lives up to her name every time someone speaks to her; she is beautiful both in and out. She has been my biggest motivator, my rock and my inspiration in tough times, my biggest fan in good times, and most importantly my best friend. Told 14 years ago that having children may not be part of our future because of ovarian cancer, she kept the faith, and is a wonderful mother to our three sons- Austen, Logan, and Nolan. She is always ensuring that they know the Lord, love of life, kindness to others, hard work, and occasionally when to "shape up".
Her boundless energy, healthy lifestyle and positive attitude are infectious. She has served as president of our children’s PTA, organized committees that benefit those who are less fortunate in the community and led drives for those who have been caught up in unfortunate situations. She has done so much for others, usually without letting anyone ever know, I could not begin to list them. Her strong faith in God and modest upbringing has given her a sense of giving that only she can explain. When she successfully started her own photography business, she also started a non-profit division photographing family portraits for area families fighting cancer. Her friends say she is amazing and she simply shakes her head and wonders what all of the fuss is about.
Her mother, sisters, brothers and large extended family will tell you she is the one you can count on to lend an ear when needed and never judge. She was raised by her loving mother and father who was the warden of the Allegheny County Jail and actually spent most of her childhood in the residence connected to the jail. At a young age she witnessed more of life’s tragedies and obstacles through her neighbors, the prisoners, than most of us can imagine.
Although all of the aforementioned is remarkable it is not what makes her truly special. Sunny is a two time cancer survivor and now is currently fighting for a third time. After beating ovarian carcinoid cancer and undergoing serious surgery for carcinoid tumors in her right lung just three years ago, the carcinoid tumors returned in her lymph nodes, liver and bones. The size and proliferation throughout the liver of these tumors mandates immediate chemotherapy in four treatments over the next few months as well as monthly octreotide treatments. These painful treatments will hopefully stop the growth but are not a cure. There are numerous tumors in her spine, her skull, her hip, her leg, and her shoulder...all in the bones and she will wait on potential radiation to fight those.
What my wife has is Carcinoid Cancer Syndrome, an endocrine disease which is rare and spreads from organ to organ. As of right now the only known treatment for remission is administered by renowned clinics in Europe. However the treatment is not covered by our insurance. Our doctors have encouraged us to start raising money and matching grants could follow. Her lead oncologist strongly believes that Sunny would be a prime candidate to be a voice to get the message out regarding carcinoid cancer syndrome, bring this treatment to the United States and encourage approval from the FDA. Without this treatment, the tumors most likely will continue to metastasize in other organs and her fight will be ongoing. Sunny has set up The Sunny Carney Carcinoid Cancer Fund to support her treatments. She believes that once she beats this cancer she can make a difference to others also suffering from Carcinoid Cancer.
Mark A. Carney
C/o S & T Bank
Sunday, December 15, 2013
Another One Hits 16
and now wow...Pandora has one of the U2 songs playing that you used to rock Logan too...and we used to hold him too...and its a rare one....Running To Stand Still....God I miss you at times....I can't imagine how these boys do it....they are so strong in how they go about their days...with their friends....with their teammates...with their schoolwork...with everything...to say I am proud of them would be like saying the Pillsbury Doughboy occasionally dabbles in pastries...I am sorry back to our talk....
We used to spend a lot of time "debating" the birth order issues....how much attention for each kid....did we treat our boys differently....did we push or favor any of them????....(and btw..as Send Me An Angel by Real Life comes on Pandora...yep....cheesy 80's one hit wonder...but foot still tappin...)....we used to have intense discussions...(ok....you would yell at me and we would argue...but we did it out of love...)...because you thought that I ignored Logan when it came to sports for the "golden child"...and yet in reality it was frustrating as hell for me because I think that because everything involving sports back then came so easy to Ace that Logan didn't feel it was worth it to try..."Logan want to go catch....no dad...tired...Ace...want to go catch...sure dad race you to the yard..."...and reality is after Nolan was born and we had three....neither one of us had experience of middle child....I was oldest of two...you were youngest diva of seven....that's right...said it...pffftt...so we didn't let Logan quit...but I so enjoyed building Thomas sets with him across the whole first floor of the house....and Lego cities...and just hanging...and now ironically he plays the same sport and same position I did through high school....goalie...and is damn good...but each one of them was and is so different as they grew and as they grow...
And so I guess after all these years I will share with you that you were partially correct...I did favor "golden child"...but not "the"....because I have learned that all of them are golden....If you gave me the chance to hit the Mega Millions Tuesday for $550 million but our boys couldn't share it....I would say screw it...each of them is golden....is priceless...and its not up to chance or odds to realize that...so we love each of them in the unique way they love us back....Logan has always been in the middle....at times it seems Ace and Nolan go out of their way to annoy him....gang up on him...Ace because I think he feels the need to assert himself as the "eldest"....and Nolan because Ace just suckers him in to his little games....they love each other deeply but they definitely have those "brother" moments...
Each of them has traits from both of us...but this talk is about Logan...so having said that he definitely has your short fuse....no time for BS type attitude...he has your soft eyes....your facial features...(actually he and Ace are mistaken for twins or each other so its comical)....he is so frickin smart that he doesn't want the pressure of doing well so the bar gets raised....I think he is content being in his comfort zone...small group of really good friends...girlfriend...knows everything about the Pirates including facts that I forgot....reminds me of myself....has helped friends that have reached out to him in times of their grief or struggles...(sometimes late at night which I know shouldn't but does irk me....remind me of anyone????)....he does an amazing job relating to the kids at his group at church....younger...they love him...real patience....real affinity for it....real passion and sense of pride....(again remind me of anyone????).....he is so damn dear to me....and as he grows I can see your influence....your lessons....he gets it....does he come and out and always talk about it....no....gets that from me....but when we do talk he opens up like you....unless I disagree with something he says...and then he isn't afraid to speak his mind....(yes dear....just like you....)....but he has had to grow so much faster than we ever did....so I still am in awe that prayers get answered and faith shines on as he goes day by day....
Ace now is at that age where he feels the need to push me at times....and then tries to con me...God is he like me....and Nolan is still the baby man-child who wants peace on earth goodwill for all and tries to make it happen...that leaves Logan somewhere in the midst....he pushes me...but also does his damnedest to make you proud....needs to work on his con game....and probably could care a lot less who he makes smile at times around here...because it can be his way or highway....which is a great thing....you...over time he will grasp the concept of compromise....or his girlfriend will teach him haha...
But after taking all of them to Dr Wolfson last week for true physical and flu shots for first time since well you know....(and yes they have had sports physicals and such...just not there)....he met with each of them and after would pull me aside privately and tell me how each of them was so well adjusted...and how strong and adjusted they seemed....and how proud I should be of them....I took a step back....I see them every day....we have our ups and downs...our laughs and our "attitude adjustments"....so I guess I still am blown away when someone who is a professional in the field...and who has known our boys since ever....shares that they are doing well....answer to prayer...testament to your guidance....and proof that I haven't screwed things up yet....
So Logan has come so far over the years...and I chose not to go all weepy with specific stories of him over the years...because you were there....don't need to....they are precious memories...for all of us...but we move onward....with your blessing.....you set the example and we are trying to follow....Logan is one heck of a kid....one of my "golden childs".....you did good with him baby....you did good....and I won't drop the ball and neither will he...(as I Promise You by When In Rome comes on....yep...can't make this shit up.....sorry one of our cheesy songs....going to break...)
Emotionally drained....sorry....I have that peace but it still hurts me to realize that my mother can wish me happy b-day but my kids mother can't wish my kids happy b-day....still one of those hard things....but not going to get stuck in it....
LOVING YOU SUN